Have you ever wondered why it seems like you have a certain type of person that flocks to you? For example, you may be one of those people that is surrounded by individuals who are highly successful and who think positively about virtually every aspect of their lives. Conversely, you may find that you are an individual who is surrounded by people that do a lot of complaining and never seem to be happy with anything they have, regardless of how good they actually have it. You have probably started to notice a pattern and you might even have started to realize that you have a lot more friends that fit into one category or the other as opposed to having a healthy mix of different personality types. Have you ever wondered why this happens?
It all comes down to the law of attraction. There is a theory in the law of attraction that says that like attracts like. In other words, you are the reason that certain types of individuals are more prone to become your friends than others. You are sending out signals all the time and you probably do not even realize that you are doing it. Sometimes this is a good thing and sometimes it is not so good. The reason is because you are projecting your own thoughts and feelings everywhere you go and this affects every person that you meet.
If you are a positive person, everything you do and say projects these subtle nuances out to the rest of the world that says that you are a capable, positive individual that is able to achieve virtually any goal you put forth for yourself. In return, other people that share those same thoughts and feelings are naturally attracted to you and this can result in lifelong friendships and even romantic relationships. It can also have a dramatic impact on your ability to surround yourself with the right people at work and even to land the job that you have always wanted.
On the other hand, if you are a person that tends to have negative thoughts you also act in a certain way that sends those cues out to individuals. You may be a chronic complainer but that is not necessarily the case. You may simply worry a lot and fear that your future will not turn out the way that you hope it will. Unfortunately, all of these things also send cues out to the rest of the world and when they do, other individuals that also have a lot of negative thoughts are naturally attracted to you. They feel as though they have someone that is a kindred spirit that they can talk to. After a while, this can overwhelm you because you are constantly surrounded with an influx of people that are never happy. If you are also experiencing the same feelings, being around all of this negativity only exacerbates your own problems and makes it easier to continue feeling negative as opposed to adopting positive feelings.
Now that you understand about the law of attraction and how like attracts like, you can probably relate this information to your own personal relationships. You can also probably start to see how your own thoughts and feelings are reflected and how they come back to you. Therefore, if you want to surround yourself with individuals that are positive people who are capable of achieving anything they want, it is vitally important that you start with your own thoughts and feelings in order to achieve that goal.
Enjoy and have a great day!